Here you are in your new home. It’s all very exciting. But now you’ve left your friends and family behind. Shortly after you arrive, you find yourself getting frustrated trying to navigate your way alone through these confusing beauracracies, finding out where to buy things, driving (or bus) directions, ordering utilities, trying to hear – and be heard – when you don’t speak the language.
Your entire social network is in another country. How do you find a new bunch of fun people to talk to? People who are like you, people who you can socialize with – and learn some shortcuts from.
The good news is that there are several groups here in Costa Rica. One only has to look at the Tico Times to find information about who these groups are, when and where they meet and a contact phone number.
You’ll find groups such as:
- Alcoholics Anonymous
- Newcomers Club (for women)
- Health Club
- Many church and religious groups
- Bridge Club
- Computer Club
- Even flag football and Frisbee clubs!
I personally tried going to a couple of groups (not those listed above) when I first arrived. What I found was that I had nothing in common with the other people there and that I was decades younger than they were. (I was starting to get the impression that most expats in Costa Rica are conservative Republicans!)
Then, low and behold, this new Costa Rica Young Expats Club showed up on the scene. It is geared towards expats age 40 and under. Their guidelines say that they aren’t checking ID, but do ask you to do a self-evaluation to make sure you really fit in with this group. They claim this to be a place to seek friendship, romance, travel & activity partners, and professional networking.
I joined and was really pleased and excited to read the profiles from those who are joining the group. There are some really interesting people. Only 11 days old, the club already has 77 official members. I think that’s a good sign – and most clearly shows that there are many people looking for this type of network.
Whether or not this new group is for you, I would strongly encourage you to take a look at the different groups here in Costa Rica. If you arrive and then find out that none of the groups are for you, then perhaps you should consider starting one?